Book Review: #iamdone by Amber McLean

book iamdone

The mystique of success for women

Have you ever wondered about why you don’t feel like you are on top of the world, when you are on top of the world? This book answers that key question and more. As a woman in transition myself, in that in between becoming stage from active midwife to mentor of women about to give birth, this book packed the spiritual punch I needed to finally realize that I am AWAKE, and there is no going back to how life use to be. First of all, I had heard of this book from a friend, but then it was hard to find in the search engine because I forgot to put in the hashtag. I found it, got it and started reading. Suddenly, I felt as though Amber was sending me a cryptic message. I kept seeing her quote someone called “ambodhi”, who is that? It felt esoteric, so I decided to Google it….I suggest you do the same. But to keep the intrigue at its highest, first get this book, read it before you Google, then wait for it…..you will never be the same again!

Get updates about my upcoming book this December 2016 (click here)

 Give Birth A Chance: How to Prepare for an Empowered VBAC

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Ilia Blandina

 

Matrix Reimprinting Summit October 8th 2015

Bruce Lipton

We can control our lives by controlling our perceptions” – Bruce Lipton, Ph.D 

No one is fixed until they make the effort to change – Bruce Lipton, Ph.D 

Gain new insights about healing. Join the online 

The Matrix Reimprinting EFT World Summit 2015

“Until next time keep tapping and let the loving tree of your celestial family be your guide to Awaken Your Life Power. Stay present in the moment, enjoy life and be well!”

Ilia Blandina

Matrix Reimprinting Summit October 5th 2015

Karl Dawson

“All problems were once solutions” – Karl Dawson 

“We seek the teeth that bit us” – Karl Dawson 

Transform Your Beliefs and Transform your Life with Matrix Reimprinting. 

The Matrix Reimprinting EFT World Summit 2015

“Until next time keep tapping and let the loving tree of your celestial family be your guide to Awaken Your Life Power. Stay present in the moment, enjoy life and be well!”

Ilia Blandina

Matrix Reimprinting Summit 2015

Matrix Reimprinting Summit 2015
Matrix Reimprinting EFT Online Summit 2015: 12 Ways You Can Heal Yourself and Help Others to do the Same

Whether you know about EFT or Tapping or any of the multitude of Energy Psychology methods, you will definitely want to check out this FREE online event.

The Matrix Reimprinting EFT World Summit 2015 (October 19 – 24, 2015) presents twelve different lessons from top trainers in EFT and Matrix Reimprinting.

  • The Alchemy of Prosperity
  • Rewiring Your Brain with Matrix Reimprinting
  • Beyond Fight, Flight, and Freeze
  • Secret Patterns of Attachment
  • Heal Your Birth, Heal Your Life
  • Clearing Ancestral and Generational Trauma
  • Transforming a Life Lived with Serious Disease
  • Beyond Grief
  • Creativity in the Matrix
  • Finding Romantic Love with Matrix Reimprinting
  • Realizing Your Dreams

The presenters will be bringing their experience in EFT techniques and practical knowledge and application of these 12 ways through which to sharpen your skills and achieve your full potential, personally and in your business.

The Matrix Reimprinting EFT World Summit 2015

“Until next time keep tapping and let the loving tree of your celestial family be your guide to Awaken Your Life Power. Stay present in the moment, enjoy life and be well!”

Ilia Blandina

Class #4 The Warrior Goddess Within

Childbirth With Grace

9/30/2015 The Warrior Goddess Within Pain Management Series Overview

Labor is one of the most physical and psychologically challenging events you will face as a woman.

You must be a warrior goddess and you must train like a warrior goddess.  I will show you how to practice using EFT during real labor pains.

YES, you will learn how to safely elicit pain and do REAL pain management. Have paper towels and a bowl of ice next to you!

To schedule a private Complimentary Chat simply click here and I will personally be contacting you as quickly as possible.

“Until next time keep tapping and let the loving tree of your celestial family be your guide to Awaken Your Life Power. Stay present in the moment, enjoy life and be well!”

Ilia Blandina

 

Birth: Break The Fear Tension Pain Cycle!

Birth collage

Birth:

Your goal is to have a graceful birth experience, but how do you get from point Ahh! to point Baby?!

  • Break the Fear Tension Pain cycle before it gets rolling!
  • Learn how to prepare and control your inner thoughts.
  • Get the tools to transform your emotional environment before things get hot & heavy.
  • Learn how to gently guide the people around you to best support you.
  • Fearful and nervous about being the birth coach! I might faint!

 

It’s wonderful, it’s magical, and it’s a unique experience. It’s also a stunningly emotional experience, and not just because of the hormonal spikes. Ask anyone who has witnessed a birth or have given birth and they will tell you how it changed their life. This show will give you the tools you need to have childbirth with grace!

I’m so excited to be helping you every week on Wednesdays at 1:30 pm eastern USA. Just simply go to ChildbirthWithGrace.TV  and scroll down until you see me, Ilia Blandina and click the button that reads “Login – Instant Access”, you will have to confirm your email and in you go!

To schedule a private Complimentary Chat simply click here or call 305-771-5052 and I will personally be contacting you as quickly as possible.

“Until next time keep tapping and let the loving tree of your celestial family be your guide to Awaken Your Life Power. Stay present in the moment, enjoy life and be well!”

Ilia Blandina

Pregnancy: Clearing Away The What If’s…

Pregnancy Pillar 2156x1924Pregnancy:

A new chapter in your life that can be very exciting and full of surprises and a wide range of emotions:
• Fear of the unknown (or known) if you’ve been pregnant before
• Anxiety about history repeating itself because you’ve had a previous negative experience
• Anger, oops the birth control didn’t work, here we go again!
• Sadness, whether it’s the hormones or you received bad news at the last prenatal visit
• Shame, embarrassment or any “What if…” you can think of.
• Yikes! My body is morphing and I have stripes!
• For caregivers of pregnant women, learn how best to support their emotional needs.

 

Clearing these haunting negative emotions is the key towards awakening your life power through childbirth with grace. Watching this show will give you the tools you need to have a peaceful pregnancy.

I’m so excited to be helping you every week on Wednesdays at 1:30 pm eastern USA. Just simply go to ChildbirthWithGrace.TV  and scroll down until you see me, Ilia Blandina and click the button that reads “Login – Instant Access”, you will have to confirm your email and in you go!

To schedule a private Complimentary Chat simply click here or call 305-771-5052 and I will personally be contacting you as quickly as possible.

“Until next time keep tapping and let the loving tree of your celestial family be your guide to Awaken Your Life Power. Stay present in the moment, enjoy life and be well!”

Ilia Blandina

Why Hire An EFT Coach?

If EFT is such an effective self help tool that I can learn to do all by myself, why would anyone go to a coach?  Why spend the money ?

EFT is an amazing and effective self help tool and it is possible to get extraordinary change with even the most basic knowledge and little or no understanding of the ‘science’ and thinking behind it. However, there are times when EFT doesn’t seem to work, you just get nowhere or you may have opened up a floodgate of negative emotions and lost memories. This is where the EFT coach comes in, when you are stuck or overwhelmed.

Primarily, the EFT coach’s role is to be a facilitator for healing work to take place, to hold a safe space for the client to explore areas that their subconscious mind may not allow them to access on their own. In doing so, as the coach, I help individuals or couples to grow and heal their relationships. I help women and couples prepare for childbirth by shedding away fear and anxiety regarding their pregnancy, birth and parenting.

My role is also to keep the client focused – to be a kind but firm guide to their process – to gently help the “masters of distraction” focus and resolve their issues in a supportive and comfortable environment – to keep the client not just on track, but moving forward. A good EFT coach will be the detective, use language skills to creatively assist the client to unearth their core issues and beliefs – to question them in ways they wouldn’t think of doing for themselves. I believe that the creative language and questioning skills of the coach are invaluable in allowing the process to flow smoothly.

It is human nature not to “go there” if “there” is too uncomfortable, either consciously or subconsciously. Some of us are masters at distraction – those times when cleaning, laundry, work, caring for your partner and/or children or just hiding away in the cocoon of internet surfing or watching TV suddenly become of utmost importance and just have to be done. Anything to avoid the issues we know at some level we need to be working with/looking at. I know – I am quite an expert on this myself! We have all been there and done that!

As human beings we are use to suppressing our negative thoughts and emotions. We master our skill at ignoring negative emotions and plowing our way through life telling ourselves and others that everything is OK. The most usual response to “How are you?” is “Fine.” How often is that the truth? EFT is all about being in your truth and helping you release the negative emotions and thoughts that kind you from your end goal of love, joy and fulfillment.

When dealing with negative things, people often ignore what is really bothering them, but at some point the subconscious mind will draw our attention to it in some other way, whether through physical aches and pains, depression, anxiety or other emotional states. We might displace or project our negative feelings onto others, and this hurts our relationships. At some point the subconscious defenses leak – something happens and we are forced to confront our reality. This is where the EFT coach comes in – to create a strategy for the client, a path for them to take, to clarify and simplify their work and to support and guide them with it as necessary. With EFT we have ways of carefully resolving and changing the overall symptoms.  And we can often do this for ourselves – but getting started can seem overwhelming, if we can figure out where to get started.

As an EFT coach I am an emotional detective. By using my training and communication skills to question the individual or couple in ways they wouldn’t think of doing for themselves. The creative language and questioning skills of the coach are invaluable in allowing the process to flow smoothly and to assist the client to unearth their core issues and beliefs. EFT is a fast track to cognitive shifts and insights. Acknowledging these changes to ourselves can be difficult. Often we won’t notice them ourselves and it will take our family, friends or colleagues to point them out. A skilled coach will be able to bring these shifts into conscious awareness as they happen.

“Even if you are on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there” ~ unknown 

That is how I see my role, supporting people as they move along their track, being a clear channel for the work to happen – being aware when they head off track and pulling them gently back, looking for those patterns, helping you examine these patterns and gain new insights and perspectives.

Love & Light

Please contact me for a free 15 minute consultation to explore how EFT and MR tapping can help you.