Book Review: Lifeline by Dr. Denise Morett

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Nurses spread the word!

I wish I had this book when I was a Pediatric ICU nurse during the first 4 years of my career; it would have helped me as the nurse as well as the families I cared for. This should be in every Pediatric ICU and Neonatal ICU! The L.I.F.E. breathing technique is perfect, wow…

Get updates about my upcoming book this December 2016 (click here)

Give Birth A Chance: How to Prepare for an Empowered VBAC

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Ilia Blandina

Class #4 The Warrior Goddess Within

Childbirth With Grace

9/30/2015 The Warrior Goddess Within Pain Management Series Overview

Labor is one of the most physical and psychologically challenging events you will face as a woman.

You must be a warrior goddess and you must train like a warrior goddess.  I will show you how to practice using EFT during real labor pains.

YES, you will learn how to safely elicit pain and do REAL pain management. Have paper towels and a bowl of ice next to you!

To schedule a private Complimentary Chat simply click here and I will personally be contacting you as quickly as possible.

“Until next time keep tapping and let the loving tree of your celestial family be your guide to Awaken Your Life Power. Stay present in the moment, enjoy life and be well!”

Ilia Blandina

 

Class #2 What is Tapping anyway? 9/16/2015

What is Tapping Anyway? www.iliablandina.com

Tapping helps you minimize your fears, stresses and concerns around your whole childbirth experience.
I’ll be demonstrating how you use this amazing tool, [which I used as a mid-wife], right on the show.

  • I’ll share a bit of history behind ‘Tapping’
  • I’ll explain what the ‘Points’ are and where they are located
  • After today’s show you’ll have a great ‘go to’ in the moment stress reducer in your own tool box
  • Be sure to join us on www.ChildbirthWithGrace.tv to receive your free ‘tapping chart’

To schedule a private Complimentary Chat simply click here and I will personally be contacting you as quickly as possible.

“Until next time keep tapping and let the loving tree of your celestial family be your guide to Awaken Your Life Power. Stay present in the moment, enjoy life and be well!”

Ilia Blandina

Birth: Break The Fear Tension Pain Cycle!

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Birth:

Your goal is to have a graceful birth experience, but how do you get from point Ahh! to point Baby?!

  • Break the Fear Tension Pain cycle before it gets rolling!
  • Learn how to prepare and control your inner thoughts.
  • Get the tools to transform your emotional environment before things get hot & heavy.
  • Learn how to gently guide the people around you to best support you.
  • Fearful and nervous about being the birth coach! I might faint!

 

It’s wonderful, it’s magical, and it’s a unique experience. It’s also a stunningly emotional experience, and not just because of the hormonal spikes. Ask anyone who has witnessed a birth or have given birth and they will tell you how it changed their life. This show will give you the tools you need to have childbirth with grace!

I’m so excited to be helping you every week on Wednesdays at 1:30 pm eastern USA. Just simply go to ChildbirthWithGrace.TV  and scroll down until you see me, Ilia Blandina and click the button that reads “Login – Instant Access”, you will have to confirm your email and in you go!

To schedule a private Complimentary Chat simply click here or call 305-771-5052 and I will personally be contacting you as quickly as possible.

“Until next time keep tapping and let the loving tree of your celestial family be your guide to Awaken Your Life Power. Stay present in the moment, enjoy life and be well!”

Ilia Blandina

Pregnancy: Clearing Away The What If’s…

Pregnancy Pillar 2156x1924Pregnancy:

A new chapter in your life that can be very exciting and full of surprises and a wide range of emotions:
• Fear of the unknown (or known) if you’ve been pregnant before
• Anxiety about history repeating itself because you’ve had a previous negative experience
• Anger, oops the birth control didn’t work, here we go again!
• Sadness, whether it’s the hormones or you received bad news at the last prenatal visit
• Shame, embarrassment or any “What if…” you can think of.
• Yikes! My body is morphing and I have stripes!
• For caregivers of pregnant women, learn how best to support their emotional needs.

 

Clearing these haunting negative emotions is the key towards awakening your life power through childbirth with grace. Watching this show will give you the tools you need to have a peaceful pregnancy.

I’m so excited to be helping you every week on Wednesdays at 1:30 pm eastern USA. Just simply go to ChildbirthWithGrace.TV  and scroll down until you see me, Ilia Blandina and click the button that reads “Login – Instant Access”, you will have to confirm your email and in you go!

To schedule a private Complimentary Chat simply click here or call 305-771-5052 and I will personally be contacting you as quickly as possible.

“Until next time keep tapping and let the loving tree of your celestial family be your guide to Awaken Your Life Power. Stay present in the moment, enjoy life and be well!”

Ilia Blandina

Childbirth With Grace Live Hangout

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“Hello welcome to ChildbirthWithGrace.TV . I am your host Ilia Blandina. My intention is to Awaken Your Life Power by helping you to tap into your personal birth journey! ”

I’m so excited to be helping you every week on Wednesdays at 1:30 pm eastern USA. Just simply go to ChildbirthWithGrace.TV  and scroll down until you see me, Ilia Blandina and click the button that reads “Login – Instant Access”, you will have to confirm your email and in you go!

Childbirth With Grace will be covering all phases of birth:
• From pre-pregnancy concerns you might have.
• To thinking, “Do I want to get pregnant?”
• “Do I really want to have a baby?”
• To the fears and uncertainty of being pregnant.
• What will giving birth be like?
• How to cope with the aches and pains of my body changing.
• Will my baby be healthy?
• And am I going to be a good parent?

We will be covering all the above and much more. I’m so glad you are here.

Our show will be interactive. Get your notebook and pen out, as I will be giving you tips on how to balance your emotions and neutralize your fears. I will be helping you to shift your negative emotions concerning pregnancy, birth and parenting by showing you how you can use EFT tapping and Matrix Reimprinting.

I’ve been a Registered Nurse (RN) since 1985 and a Certified Nurse Midwife (CNM), Advanced Registered Nurse Practitioner (ARNP) since 1994. During my career I have attended over 5000 births including 4 of my own. Now I am bringing all this knowledge to you as an EFT and Matrix Reimprinting Practitioner. I am grateful that you will be watching and participating in the show.

Be certain to add our weekly show to your calendar.

Wednesdays at 1:30 pm Eastern USA.

To schedule a private Complimentary Chat simply click here or call 305-771-5052 and I will personally be contacting you as quickly as possible.

“Until next time keep tapping and let the loving tree of your celestial family be your guide to Awaken Your Life Power. Stay present in the moment, enjoy life and be well!”

Ilia Blandina

Why Hire An EFT Coach?

If EFT is such an effective self help tool that I can learn to do all by myself, why would anyone go to a coach?  Why spend the money ?

EFT is an amazing and effective self help tool and it is possible to get extraordinary change with even the most basic knowledge and little or no understanding of the ‘science’ and thinking behind it. However, there are times when EFT doesn’t seem to work, you just get nowhere or you may have opened up a floodgate of negative emotions and lost memories. This is where the EFT coach comes in, when you are stuck or overwhelmed.

Primarily, the EFT coach’s role is to be a facilitator for healing work to take place, to hold a safe space for the client to explore areas that their subconscious mind may not allow them to access on their own. In doing so, as the coach, I help individuals or couples to grow and heal their relationships. I help women and couples prepare for childbirth by shedding away fear and anxiety regarding their pregnancy, birth and parenting.

My role is also to keep the client focused – to be a kind but firm guide to their process – to gently help the “masters of distraction” focus and resolve their issues in a supportive and comfortable environment – to keep the client not just on track, but moving forward. A good EFT coach will be the detective, use language skills to creatively assist the client to unearth their core issues and beliefs – to question them in ways they wouldn’t think of doing for themselves. I believe that the creative language and questioning skills of the coach are invaluable in allowing the process to flow smoothly.

It is human nature not to “go there” if “there” is too uncomfortable, either consciously or subconsciously. Some of us are masters at distraction – those times when cleaning, laundry, work, caring for your partner and/or children or just hiding away in the cocoon of internet surfing or watching TV suddenly become of utmost importance and just have to be done. Anything to avoid the issues we know at some level we need to be working with/looking at. I know – I am quite an expert on this myself! We have all been there and done that!

As human beings we are use to suppressing our negative thoughts and emotions. We master our skill at ignoring negative emotions and plowing our way through life telling ourselves and others that everything is OK. The most usual response to “How are you?” is “Fine.” How often is that the truth? EFT is all about being in your truth and helping you release the negative emotions and thoughts that kind you from your end goal of love, joy and fulfillment.

When dealing with negative things, people often ignore what is really bothering them, but at some point the subconscious mind will draw our attention to it in some other way, whether through physical aches and pains, depression, anxiety or other emotional states. We might displace or project our negative feelings onto others, and this hurts our relationships. At some point the subconscious defenses leak – something happens and we are forced to confront our reality. This is where the EFT coach comes in – to create a strategy for the client, a path for them to take, to clarify and simplify their work and to support and guide them with it as necessary. With EFT we have ways of carefully resolving and changing the overall symptoms.  And we can often do this for ourselves – but getting started can seem overwhelming, if we can figure out where to get started.

As an EFT coach I am an emotional detective. By using my training and communication skills to question the individual or couple in ways they wouldn’t think of doing for themselves. The creative language and questioning skills of the coach are invaluable in allowing the process to flow smoothly and to assist the client to unearth their core issues and beliefs. EFT is a fast track to cognitive shifts and insights. Acknowledging these changes to ourselves can be difficult. Often we won’t notice them ourselves and it will take our family, friends or colleagues to point them out. A skilled coach will be able to bring these shifts into conscious awareness as they happen.

“Even if you are on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there” ~ unknown 

That is how I see my role, supporting people as they move along their track, being a clear channel for the work to happen – being aware when they head off track and pulling them gently back, looking for those patterns, helping you examine these patterns and gain new insights and perspectives.

Love & Light

Please contact me for a free 15 minute consultation to explore how EFT and MR tapping can help you.

Fear

“Nothing matters so much that we should throw ourselves into a state of panic about it. No happening is so important that we should let ourselves be exiled from inner peace and mental calm for its sake.” ~ Paul Brunton

The Answer: “Feel the fear and jump, dive, leap into it with wild abandon.” ~Shayna Zweben

Get relief from the fear that is haunting you. Contact me for further information.