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This photo says it all!!! Childbirth With Grace will help you have a peaceful pregnancy!

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I’m so excited to be helping you every week on Wednesdays at 1:30 pm eastern USA. Just simply go to ChildbirthWithGrace.TV  and scroll down until you see me, Ilia Blandina and click the button that reads “Login – Instant Access”, you will have to confirm your email and in you go!

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“Until next time keep tapping and let the loving tree of your celestial family be your guide to Awaken Your Life Power. Stay present in the moment, enjoy life and be well!”

Ilia Blandina

Someone Like You

Someone Like You

Adele talks about meeting her former lover in the future where he is happy and settled down and she is still alone. Now listen to this song with the idea of meeting a version of yourself in the future. Would it be the successful you or the you that settled for less? This is an interesting twist, but if we had a time machine what would we tell ourselves to make our dreams come true?

Negative emotions and self talk can keep you from the best that you can be. EFT can clear these negative emotions and help you get on your way to the you that you’ve dreamed about.

The person you are waiting for is YOU!

Whether it’s to develop better relationships or have the most peaceful pregnancy or fearless delivery. Get rid of your negative baggage that is holding you back! Contact me for further information.

 

How to be successful in Marriage or Long-term Relationships

A long term relationship as in marriage is very hard. I’ve been married for over 30 years and together for over 33 years. My overall thoughts about long term relationships are it takes the following ingredients to make it work out:

  • Commitment
  • Forgiveness
  • Love….unconditional
  • Communication skills…impeccable
  • Honesty….raw
  • Knowing when not to say anything
  • Meditation
  • Believe you were brought together for a greater purpose
  • Freedom……allow all expressions
  • All emotion is good….but do no harm
  • Mutual Respect….try…”no harm, no foul”
  • Partnership
  • Listening skills
  • Sex, sex and more sex….not necessarily with just your body….your mind has to be involved
  • Allow….all expressions of thought, ideas, philosophy
  • Don’t assume ownership
  • Keep your mind open
  • A quest for self improvement…..Always do inner work on yourself first
  • Let go of blame
  • Nothing is as it seems…..we live in our own illusion
  • “Check yourself before you wreck yourself”
  • See though the obvious….the reality is not necessarily what you see in front of you
  • Frustrations usually go deeper than the present event
  • Listen to the humor…..it’s usually the truth
  • Watch each other’s back without being judgmental
  • Compromise….two (or more) people with individual agenda’s need to meet in the middle
  • Make a decision…is it worth fighting for? (there’s no wrong answer here) Proceed from there.

Strangeness and Charm in Relationships

Enjoy “Strangeness and Charm” by Florence & the Machine

To me the song speaks about the energy that holds us together. We can’t see it but it’s what attracts us and binds us. It’s filled with a lot of scientific imagery.  Strange and charm are types of quarks, as well as down and up. Strange and charm quarks can only be created in high energy collisions. Her song is all about the chemistry of intense love and how just a touch sets off the chemical reaction. What a great feeling!

Read the lyrics while watching the video.

Contact me for a free 15 minute consultation regarding how EFT tapping can help you.

The best way to heal from a broken heart

Getting over a broken heart can be very draining. The best way to heal from a broken heart is to use EFT tapping to shake off the negative emotions regarding the loss of a relationship. When you realize the relationship you have is not what it seemed you can use the extraordinary benefits of EFT tapping to rebuild the love for each other or help you to move on.

Tapping on acupressure points of your upper body and face in a consistent pattern while thinking about painful past events releases negative emotions tied to the events. The result is a shift from a negative downward spiral of emotions to calmness and clarity of thought. EFT is a highly effective tool to heal you of the negative emotions embedded in your energy system as a result of years of limiting beliefs. Open your communication with your partner by using EFT tapping to remove negative emotions created by past events. It has been said that one hour of EFT with a skilled practitioner is equivalent to 100 hours of conventional talk therapy. I have personally seen how well this works in my own life.

“It’s hard to dance with the devil on your back, so shake it out” Florence and the machine. So contact me to help you learn the best way to heal from a broken heart by tapping those negative emotions away for good!

Contact me for a free 15 minute consult.

Love & Light,
Ilia

Hello my beautiful people!

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My Turning Point Story

Hello my name is Ilia Blandina CNM ARNP. I am an EFT and Matrix Reimprinting practitioner specializing in pregnancy and relationship coaching.  My goal is to help you to heal yourself from negative emotions that are keeping you from experiencing love and joy in your life. Here I am relaying my personal experience with EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and how it saved my life.

At the stroke of midnight welcoming the new year of 2011, I had a premonition and my first thought was “Welcome the year of Death”. Little did I know how prophetic that premonition would be. Little did I realize how 2011 would become an emotional “perfect storm,” and that EFT, something I hardly knew about as I stood there toasting the New Year would become the life raft I would need to survive that perfect storm.

Prior to the start of 2011 I had a lot of stress in my family, there was gravely ill parents, parenting stress raising 4 boys, and marital stress where my husband and I were just not getting along or communicating well. I made it a mission to make changes in my life. So I started studying energy healing and different forms of it online which led me to EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique). I saw how varied the uses were, that you can use it for anything. A strong statement I know, but little did I know how handy the tool would become. In April of 2011 I attended the Level 1 & 2 certification courses offered by EFT Universe and shortly thereafter the storm began.

Several people died through the following months. Basically, one person per month starting on Mother’s Day through August, a total of 5 people, two family members, a colleague, a young adult (child of friends) and a teenager.  Where’s the oxygen? The amount of stress this generated amplified the poor communication patterns that had unknowingly been established with my husband for several years. Our relationship teetered on a breaking point.  I had thought I was in a happy marriage of 30 years but very quickly realized that we had not been happy for a very long time.  This was all so unexpected. Suddenly my whole psychic planet exploded and then my marriage almost exploded. It was the perfect storm at the perfect time with EFT perfectly in place to help us through it.

The stress of that year led to a crisis in my marriage and if it wasn’t for EFT we would not have survived it intact.  This was a very intense time in my life, without EFT I don’t know where I would be right now. My intention is that through my story I will be able to reach out and help others.

Bottom line, I would not have been able to survive it without using EFT. And today my marriage and relationship with my family is stronger than ever. Because we were able to clear the negative emotions from events that happened earlier in our lives we became happier and stronger as a couple and our communication with each other has become open and clear, without any judgments or fear. I have better control over my inner thoughts and emotions. It’s like I ran to the edge of the cliff but was able to stop myself from jumping off!

Even though it was a huge crisis, it was a crisis of perfection. All the pieces were in place so that there was a soft landing spot, as opposed to being all over the cement. I had discovered EFT in 2008 via a free download of the EFT Manual and had put it on the back burner at that time. When I had the intuitive sense that 2011 was going to be a challenging year I used it to prepare myself to meet the challenges. I found that not only was I able to meet them but I came out stronger and it enabled me to grow in tremendous ways. As individuals, and as a couple, we came out healthier and stronger than before we went in.

Before our marriage crisis we were not talking to each other and not connecting. We were functioning on auto pilot. But now on the other side of it life is great. We are communicating, connecting and generally feeling well despite the ongoing stressors outside of our relationship. Instead of overreacting to each other, we listen, respond, and connect. In an ideal world we all want to make it through the challenges in life. EFT was not just a coping mechanism; it was a mechanism for growth and thriving.

Everything turned around so well by using EFT and Matrix Reimprinting that when 2012 rang in my first thought was “Welcome the year of Hope”!

My services are designed to help women prepare for childbirth by releasing any negative emotions they may have before or during pregnancy towards conceiving, giving birth or after the birth. I also want to help couples meet and grow through the challenges in their relationship. Please feel free to contact me.